Originally Posted by: Online Community MemberThanks for the post, I had prostate cancer 8 years ago in 2014 I was 59 years old and I flatly refused hormone treatment because I was terrified by it and the side effects. my oncologist understood and arranged for me to have RT and brachytherapy. it worked and I had 8 years of remission. It is now back with a vengeance and has spread to my ribs and lymph nodes. The oncos are saying I must have the HT, but I am still s*** scared of it and don't know what to do, and don't know If I can face the horrible side effects.
It would be better if you started your own thread Nick so that we are not cluttering up someone else's information but I do wonder how realistic you are being. You have advanced prostate cancer with bone mets; any side effects from the hormone treatment will be nothing in comparison to being terminally ill with bone mets - loss of mobility, possible paralysis due to dpinal cord compression, trying to breathe with rib mets, inability to urinate leading to permanent catheterisation, odema leading to possible heart or other organ failure, it can be a fairly awful death. And if it is loss of libido that worries you, once those bone mets take hold you probably wouldn't be able to have sex anyway due to the pain and risk of breakages and, as the disease progresses, you would be far too ill to feel randy.
It is easy to compare life as it is now with your greatest fears about life as it might be on treatment but that is flawed thinking - the comparison should be between what life is going to be like without treatment v what life could be like with treatment. Better perhaps to have the hormones, control the cancer and negotiate yourself a decent quality of life for as long as possible followed by an end of life in which the worst bits have been avoided / controlled?
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