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GregJ’s Journey - To Infinity And Beyond!

User
Posted 21 Apr 2023 at 10:00

Hi Chris, Derek and Michael

Thank you for you encouragement, it means a lot. 

Take care gentlemen 

Greg. 

User
Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 10:48

Hi all

Hope you’re keeping well. 

Well I’ve finally got my surgery date of June 28th. 😳


The anxiety is really starting to ramp up now I have to say. Not because of the surgery I don’t think, more a general anxiety about hospitals and the fact I’ve been lucky to never have had a general anaesthetic before. 

Any tips, advice or wise words from experience would be gratefully received. 😊

Cheers

Greg. 

User
Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 12:54

Same as you, never been in Hospital for anything other than a few stitches. I had no idea what to expect. But the clinical staff really do lead you through the process on the day.

Having the GA injected and going to sleep is not like it's shown on TV. "Count backwards" etc

Mine was right Mr X I am just going to give you something to help you relax and bang that was it, out for count. Probably 4 hours in fact. Next thing I knew I was in the recovery ward asking to get up since I needed to go to work... I really must get my priorities right.

 

User
Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 13:24

Thanks Jim

I hope that’s the same for me, lights out before I know what’s happening.
I guess it’s not the op I should worry about as I’ll not have a clue what’s happening… it’s the years recovery afterwards I should be concerned about…., 😳🥴 😊

Cheers

Greg. 

User
Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 15:50

Best of luck! I had my op just after Easter and went in feeling fit and well but knowing I would feel awful afterwards! It’s the 1st time I had any form of anaesthetic and I must admit it was a wonderful feeling suddenly going off and then waking up thinking where the hell am I! There’s a thread from a few weeks ago called practical advice before surgery which covers many points. I just took in change of clothes (loose baggy ones) some snacks phone and charger. Before op suggest you get personal grooming sorted - haircut toe nails etc as it would be  6 weeks or so before I could get out to have my hair done and bend down to cut toe nails! Finally take it easy and be patient remembering everyone is different. 

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Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 16:00

Thanks for the tips Mgor 

I want it to be all done and dusted..whilst at the same time wishing it would all just go away! 
Stressed and confused I think. 🥴😊

Cheers

Greg. 

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Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 16:55
I am sure that everyone is different but I went in freaking out about it - thinking the worst things that could happen - and none of them did!

I can't say exactly that it was an anti-climax because it's serious stuff but it was about 10% of what I feared.

Walking into the theatre is daunting but lots of smiling eyes (I am sure they were really smiling behind their masks). Lay on the bed and breath into the oxygen mask which is quite hard to do and then the last thing I remember was a nurse with the prettiest blue eyes and then bang, I'm gone.

I wake up (apparently) 5 hours later in recovery with no pain but a couple of inflating devices around my legs that would stay there for 24 hours. After an hour or so I am wheeled back to the ward and I just sleep on and off until tea time. Given a full meal and no signs of being sick or anything.

Nurses pop back in every hour or so to check on temp, blood pressure and the state of my urine bag - still no pain. Manage to get a couple of hours of sleep that night.

Next day the shoulder pain started which is a side effect of the CO2 gas they use to inflate your abdomen. It's the most painful part of the procedure and you will need some good painkillers so don't let them fob you off with a paracetemol!

The catheter is awkward but unless you catch it wrong it's not painful - ask them for someway to fix the pipework to your leg to stop it swinging about.

You will be up and walking around the day after the op and probably asked to shower and then released home. No driving with the catheter of course.

You will have prescriptions for day and night urine bags, painkillers and daily anti-coagulation injections - get some antiseptic solution as well as you need to keep the catheter sterile clean.

That's about it - the wounds heal after a few days, you need to have a bowel movement within 2-3 days of getting home and you need to take things steady for a couple of weeks - as the wounds heal quickly it is easy to forget that you have had some serious internal surgery.

Yep, about 10% of what I imagined was going to happen :)

User
Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 17:04

That’s brilliant, thanks Steve. 😊


I was/am worried about the CO2 as I have quite a bit of abdominal pain which is being investigated by gastro, after I’ve recovered from the op. (Had colonoscopy and gastroscopy but no clear findings yet) .. so I was/am concerned that the abdominal pain will be unbearable after the op. If it’s shoulder pain then at least I’ll be able to differentiate between the two … if you know what I mean. 

One of the (many) things stressing me out is the hospital is 2 hours away from where I live and I have to check in at 7am! 
I’m going to stay in a local Travelodge the night before I think, to make the logistics a bit easier and hopefully remove some of the stress of the morning. 

Thanks again for sharing your experience, it really helps. 
All the best

Greg. 

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Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 17:27
If you have any questions then either post or message me and I can tell you my experiences - now 5 weeks post RARP.

I was fortunate that I was #1 for the day at 8am in theatre so they had me in the night before but yes, staying local to the hospital sounds like a good idea but I doubt you will sleep much unfortunately - but there really is nothing to be concerned about. Just remember not to eat or drink after the allotted time but if you are staying in a Travelodge then that's not going to be difficult :) :)

I had zero abdominal pain - just the shoulders and in my case my back as I have some arthritis in my back and side sleep but had to sleep on my back for 3 days.

Keep smilin'

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Posted 19 Jun 2023 at 19:36

Haha cheers Steve. 

Yeah, I’ll be having an evening meal before I check into the Travelodge!

Got stop eating by midnight but I never eat after about 9pm anyway so hopefully it’ll all work out. I was wondering about sleep the night before, in a different bed as well but at least I’ll be “resting” if nothing else. 
Thanks for the encouragement 😊👍

cheers

Greg

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Posted 22 Jun 2023 at 11:33

Great you have a date now Greg. I was nervous about the general anaesthetic too but the team in the anaesthetic room were brilliant at reassuring me they would look after me.

I knew I had to have the treatment so just placed my faith in the team. 
I came around very gently after the anaesthetic and was looked after by a great team in the high dependency unit until I was moved to a ward.

The hospital teams are expert in this.

At one point as I drifted in and out of a very pleasant sleep I realised that one of the nurses in the high dependency unit was the daughter of a neighbour of ours. That was very reassuring!

Wishing you all the best for the 28th.

Ido4

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Posted 22 Jun 2023 at 18:42

Hi Ido4

Thank you for the reassurance. 😊

I’m definitely getting more nervous as the time approaches but you’re right, I’ll just put my faith in the wonderful staff that work in the NHS. 
Modern day heroes one and all. 

I hope once I’m there and speaking to them it will feel reassuring and things will happen quickly and automatically so I won’t have too much time to dwell. 😊

 

Thanks again and take care

Greg. 

User
Posted 22 Jun 2023 at 20:38
:)

You will be back on here in a couple of days saying "why was I worrying about that" - really, it will be a lot less than you are expecting.

See you soon!

User
Posted 22 Jun 2023 at 23:50

Cheers Steve 👍😊👍

User
Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 21:28

Well, it’s getting closer 😳😳🤢

Sitting in a Travelodge room … bored, bored, bored … 

Just sitting thinking about tomorrow morning. Up at 5am to get to the hospital for 7. 

Sure I’ll be fine once I get into the hospital and talking to the team but at the moment I’ve just got anxiety and nerves rolling around my noggin. 
Hope I get some sleep at least. 

See you on the other side. 
Cheers

Greg. 😬

User
Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 22:13

Bored in a Travelodge!  I was expecting an account of beyond infinity.

I recall sleeping from 9am to Noon.  Being woken for 10 minutes and put back to sleep for 4 hours when a ward bed became available.   Then I didn't sleep until the following night for some reason but I was up and about inspecting the ward after they removed the drip mid morning.  I guess you could be home Thursday or Friday but with a 2 hour trip are you being driven?

All the best, Peter

User
Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 22:13

Travelodge, definitely boring. Time to go for a walk I think. Good luck, report back when you're up to it.

Dave

User
Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 22:19

Haha infinity starts … tomorrow.. but tomorrow never comes .. so hopefully I can give a small update on a near future and follow up with the infinity details .. later 😂 … I don’t think it will involve a travelodge ever again .. hopefully 😁

I’m being picked up both ways Peter.

They say if all goes well I should be out on Thursday, sometime. I know a few guys that have been to the same hospital and all but one got out the next day. One had to stay an extra day because he was a little dehydrated. 

I’ve got everything crossed that it all goes smoothly.

cheers

Greg

 

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Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 22:21

Thanks Dave. 

Yeah, quick walk then bed I think. 
I will report back once all done and dusted … and hopefully at home having a nice relaxing and unstressed cuppa 😊👍

cheers

Greg. 

User
Posted 27 Jun 2023 at 22:23

Hi Greg,

Hope all goes well.

Best wishes,

JedSee.

 
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