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EBRT planning conundrum

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Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 23:12

The one time I had to do the walk of shame round the hospital gardens trying to fart with a full bladder, it just wasn’t going to happen without peeing myself. So they gave me another enema to use and off to the loo I went. The moment the nozzle hit my back passage was enough to let a huge one go….along with the contents of my bladder. So, another 3 cups of water and another 30 minutes waiting. Sometimes you’ve just got to laugh🤣🤣🤣

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Posted 11 Feb 2025 at 23:13

Glad your RT went ok Darren and I hope you join the undetectable club soon🤞🤞🤞🤞

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Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 08:12

Thanks Decho. Really funny the whole bladder and bowel prep looking back and all of our efforts to get the radiotherapy at the allotted time!! 

In my cancer centre we all got given a unique looking water bottle to use by the nurses to keep for bladder prep so we could all identify each other amongst the other patients. 

A bit like running race T-shirts it actually helped to strike up conversation with people going through the same thing. 

Hoping the Prostap works as long as possible. I’ve been told it’s life long treatment. Onwards and upwards!

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Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 12:16

How are your side effects on Prostap Darren? Hope they’re not too bad?

Im at squeaky bum time now that my testosterone has started to appear(just) but I have to say that if I’m told I need to be on Prostap for life I may well have an Orchidectomy and live with the consequences.

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Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 20:35

Well after 14 months on Prostap I think on balance the side effects are manageable. Not perfect but it’s extending my life no doubt. Fitness wise I lift less heavy weights and running is harder especially hills. I just keep at it. Hot flushes are improved by reducing coffee but I can’t resist coffee at times! Just love a flat white and accept that night I’ll have some hot flushes. Finger joints are a bit stiff and achey and the Achilles. All manageable really. Not desirable definitely but ok.

Onco said at the 3 year point I could try a hormone holiday but I don’t know if I’d dare! He said it with great reservation even though lymph nodes and prostate Ca can’t be seen on imaging. 2 tiny bone nets still there but stable. You’re very brave allowing testosterone to return. I know our diagnosis are different. How often are you having PSA checks now? Orchidectomy sounds so drastic but I do understand where you’re coming from if the side effects from hormone therapy are really bad. 

 

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Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 20:46

Sorry Decho, maybe our diagnosis is the same? T3b? I don’t want this to sound like the Top Trumps of prostate cancer but are you N1/M1 as well? Thanks Decho

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Posted 12 Feb 2025 at 22:09

Hi Darren,

No, I’m T3bN0M0.

I just have that niggling fear that as I couldn’t have bracytherapy boost nor treatment to the pelvic area both of which I was being directed towards, that they missed something, and it’s going to come back when my testosterone returns. I try and just put it to the back of my mind by having as much fun as possible😊Oh, and I’m sure the sertraline helps as well!

Derek

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Posted 13 Feb 2025 at 06:49

Gentlemen.  A very useful exchange and thank you.  Hugely informative.   I finish my sixth and final chemo session next week.  My oncologist wrote to me earlier this week suggesting the next stage was RT (which I was expecting) but slightly alarmed he said they would only be zapping the prostrate.  I always assumed the 4 spots on the pelvis would be included and L1 lower spine.  Reading this has given me far greater insight into the “self advocacy” which now inevitably follows. Thanks again and good luck all!  Anthony  

 

 
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