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How come all these side affects are ''glossed over'' by the medical profession

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Posted 21 Dec 2024 at 16:35

Mack,

You ask how I make decision. It was absolutely difficult. I so much wanted to do AS, having done that with Non-Hodgkins lymphoma 20 years ago. I was scared to death of chemotherapy at the time and a myriad of clinical trials I also needed to wade through to come to my decision. Ultimately I had to pull the trigger on treatment. Here I am 20 years later, I managed the side effects of chemotherapy and still have immune system issues from the chemo being immunocompromised , then this one hit. Prior to both my prostate biopsy and prostate surgery to reduce infection risk, I had to get an IVIG infusuion. Except these infusions were not putting killing drugs in my veins, but immunoglobulins to boost my blood system.

      AS certainly is extremely valuable for quality of life issues such as incontinence,  ED and rectal issues that someone may experience with surgery or radiation. I know you mention about feeling that medicine is in the dark ages.  It has taken great strides with prostate cancer. It was overwhelmingly shown prostate cancer patients were over-treated in the past with surgery and radiation, and incurred these side effects when they might have never needed treatment and never incurred side effects that affected quality of life and hence AS. In the old days they just ripped out the prostate with no thought to the side effects or radiated the hell out of the area again not concerned with the side effects. 

 

 It seems with your recommendation and being comfortable with AS at your age why not kick the can down the road. Unfortunately not everyone can remain on AS and as Adrian emphasizes that is the need for continued regular surveillance through PSA checks, MRI’s and additional biopsies. Also unfortunately no one knows exactly when that tipping point at what month or year the cancer needs treating. Many on AS are devastated to hear they now need treatment either as worsening PSA, biopsy or scans appearing to show the cancer has left the capsule. That is the point, it is really difficult to know when that point is going to occur, but if caught early through active surveillance most treatment options including surgery are still available, even if it has just breeched the capsule. I think many people on AS believe it will always be caught just before breaking out and is,  but sometimes it is caught after that, because the cancer for the patients who ultimately will have to leave AS, that cancer is growing. The belief in AS is that this gives patients possibly many years of quality of life with no incontinence and ED and also many times in those patients on AS that AS did not work maybe they have received an additional year or two of no side effects and enjoyed a higher quality of life as Adrian again points out personally. That becomes the trade off if you are able to accept, that if you are on AS and it fails and although the cancer might have left the capsule you will get successfully treated as if you immediately were treated in the first place. The difference is for maybe two additional years you enjoyed the highest quality of life but with the trade off knowing that you have cancer inside of you that could be growing. Understandably that is difficult for some to accept. Also new treatments and techniques are always in the pipeline that if you are able to hold off on treatment it might be something that becomes available to you. AS is a difficult decision but its a trade off.

 

My decision was surgery but I was very scared of surgery and side effects  including just the thought of a catheter for 10 days. Both surgery and radiation have potential side effects, some overlap such as incontinence and ED and others like rectal are tied to radiation. ED after surgery is right away, while it will come later during Radiation treatment or after treatment.  Today versus years ago, leaps in technology have come to minimize these side effects in both procedures. Surgery with Puboprostatic ligament sparing, and Retzius sparing along with procedure technique to reduce or eliminate incontinence. Nerve sparing for ED issues and Robotic Single port entry for overall quicker surgery recovery. Now with Radiation, the development of Space Oar Hydrogel is used to minimize rectal side effects and focal Radiation procedures can also.

For me choosing Surgery it also had to do knowing that I would still have Radiation as a backup and I was approaching 71 and the window to receiving surgery was getting closer to close around 75 but sooner if my health were to deteriorate for any other reasons and preclude surgery. Salvage Radiation is much easier than a Salvage surgery as the surgery is considered much more difficult and done only by certain surgeons very experienced in that salvage surgery.

Another reason I chose surgery was that while I was in surgery after the prostate was removed and the tissue was removed to check on margins, the tissue was sent immediately to the hospital pathology for staining to see whether I had clear margins. This clearly delays the closing of the surgery and in my case my margins did come back positive which surprised the surgeon because based on the hundreds of tissue he visually has seen in surgery which he did not see anything unusual and the PET scan saying it was contained within the prostate really was a surprise. Many Surgeons do not bother with this and at your post surgery appointment they give you the disappointing news that you have positive margin. Well my Surgeon was then able to go back in for 2 more hours delicately continuing nerve sparing and cut for more margin and at my post surgery appointment I was told the final margin was then negative. Without that additional step of my tissue going to pathology I would have been told at my post surgery appointment that unfortunately you have positive margin as many are. His afternoon surgery appointment got delayed by two hours by the surprised breeching of the capsule by the cancer. Immediately upon my catheter coming out I was continent and have minimal ED side effects 90 days out with more improvement expected. I was up walking immediately after surgery and did not even spend that night after surgery in the hospital. Within two weeks I was back to normal activities like driving and getting out and around and traveling. Although my catheter was in for 10 days that was due to a 3 day holiday period but that allowed my surgery to continue to heal. Now on a downside I did get a blood clot in my leg from the surgery likely due to my surgery taking much longer than expected but blood clots are a side effect of any surgery not tied to prostate surgery. Anyways my thoughts on my direction I chose. As also often emphasized on this site it is important to find the right surgeon if that route is taken. I know all the surgical techniques are not available everywhere but they are becoming more available and is also a benefit the longer you may be able to wait the more widespread use of the latest technology further reducing side effects.

 

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User
Posted 22 Dec 2024 at 01:35

Hi Mack,

I totally get where you are coming from. I'm in sort of the same situation.

After initial diagnosis, I decided on AS, and 18 months on still keen to continue this (if they allow it). At my recent clinic visit to discuss the latest biopsy results, the nurse mentioned the consultant has been very keen for me to come off AS and take radical treatment. 

The 1st biopsy 18 months ago identified as Grade 2 T2 N0 M0. The recent biopsy was a template, but not exactly. My prostate at 26cc was too small for the template so it was done manually to replicate the template.

Cutting to the chase, at the clinic the nurse stated its very unusual in her experience, but I am now showing as Grade 1 with less than 5% of the sample tissue showing adenocarcinoma. They are not dismissing the earlier Grade 2, but latest samples are different. However they do keep reminding me, these are only samples and its very easy to miss the PC. 

For me the AS has not really messed with my mind too much. I'm very much in favour of quality of life. But should I find myself having to make a treatment decision, I'm currently leaning towards 5 session SABR with no HT, that is if I can get the necessary referral to a hospital that will do this, and if they find me a suitable candidate. If I have to pay privately for a SpaceOAR thats fine, its a no-brainer I wouldn't even consider it without that. 

The whole situation may well change and options or decisions might not play out this way.

This forum is amazing and very informative, but I do also know personally people who have had RP and some who have had RT. I've heard good and bad from both options, so its very difficult to apply this to your own situation as clearly every outcome is only every going to be unique to that person. 

User
Posted 22 Dec 2024 at 14:24

Hi Mack-Mack

You have had some very useful replies here.

Briefly my experience and thoughts: What you are going through is what all men experience when diagnosed with prostate cancer. I had surgery over 13 years ago and I am still here enjoying my life, in all its aspects, with my wife of over 60 years, children and grandchildren. My decision to have surgery was entirely based on the MRI images showing that the cancer was well contained with clear margins and I had complete confidence in the consultant; he told me that the robot-assisted-surgery would be nerve-sparing but could not promise the final outcome. The surgery was very long and complicated. Recovery was difficulty - the catheter was in place for five weeks - and initially I suffered from complete incontinence. I am now 99.9% continent, leak when sexually excited and at orgasm; I use a very light pad for confidence. My experience is good-news-bad-news variety! To help other men and their wives/partners I have a long thread on this site which you may find useful:

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t28948-Re-establishing-Sex-Life

I cannot emphasis enough that prostate cancer, its diagnosis, treatment and recovery patterns are so varied that whilst it is useful, informative and encouraging (or not at times!) to read other men's experiences, ultimately you are going to have to make a choice in conjunction with various consultants; once you do that be confident and live your life 'forward'. Finally, do we regret our choice of treatment? No we don't, but then hindsight is a wonderful skill! 

You mentioned the possibility of face to face meeting with others - this is an excellent idea because this disease is a lonely business. I would be more than happy to chat if you private message me. 

I wish you good luck because that is what we all need.

 

Edited by member 22 Dec 2024 at 14:27  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 22 Dec 2024 at 21:33

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
.. I do also know personally people who have had RP and some who have had RT. I've heard good and bad from both options ...

I think that is the challenge. One of the main things I have learned from this forum is that although we have the same cancer, actually we are all different in how it affects us and how we respond to treatment.

So you have to decide knowing that there might be adverse side effects from RP (and you know there will be for the first few weeks) but it might all turn out OK, just as there might be adverse side effects from RT (but less acute and possibly different ones long term) and others from the HT that may well be needed alongside RT. The only side effect of AS is anxiety and only you will know if you can cope with that - and you will have to accept that you probably will need one of the other treatments eventually.

My view is that current RT is less likely to have problematic side effects than RP, but RP has the advantage that PSA should drop down to essentially zero (below the measurement limit) so that any recurrence will be picked up very sensitively and quickly. And RT is suitable for salvage treatment in that case, while the opposite is most likely not feasible.

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 01:04

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

I hear what you're saying Francji, but the advice Mack's been given isn't as conclusive as you suggest. His oncologist at first recommended surgery but when Mack told her that he could deal with having cancer and being monitored she said that it was as good an option for him as surgery or radiotherapy. This was echoed by the MDT who said all 3 treatments were suitable. The poor bloke seems to be in the same position as most of us have been in, eg "We'll leave it up to you to decide"

 

The Oncologist recommendation was pretty clear - surgery.

The fact that any treatment OR do nothing are all equal for 10 to 15 years is also true and demonstrable by the statistics, that is just the nature of prostate cancer caught early.

The catch of do nothing may come at 10 to 15  years!

That is why the final choice is the patients, he is taking the risk and he will have to live with the consequences of his choice.

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 07:19

Hi Adrian,

Thank you for your reply, been open and honest is such a relief for me.

I'm trying to be positive, but maybe I should just take it a day ay a time.

Thanks again

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 07:30

Hi Ned@1

Wow - thank you for your feedback, this sort of information gives me hope.

You and Adrian are giving  life stories - with real meaning.

 I really appreciate the input.

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 16:30

Francij1

I would respectfully disagree that any treatment or doing nothing is equal at 10 to 15 years if caught early is demonstrable by the statistics. Gleason 6 cancers by many Doctors are being considered as no cancer and your statistics for these cancers is that they are demonstrably slow growing, but advanced Gleason 8, and 9 and 10 are demonstrably fast growing through Decipher statistics and other genome testing. Doing nothing with these cancers is not an option regardless even in a science world where someone was diagnosed on day 1 of their cancer inception, its not 10 to 15 years, it will metastasize quickly under 5 years if its an aggressive cancer and nothing to treat it is done.

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 17:06

I agree. I think it is very important people looking towards Active Surveillance are aware of potential risks particularly when their cancer includes pattern 4. That does not mean Active Surveillance is not a suitable option for some with Gleason 3:4 but they need to be aware of the risks and the very strong possibility that in the not too distant future they may require more radical treatment, which again of course will be their individual choice.

Edited by member 23 Dec 2024 at 17:07  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 17:13

I would certainly agree that for most men doing nothing with a Gleason 8+ prostate cancer is not an option. The exceptions might be men who have a limited life expectancy for some other reason.

But, although statistics are hard to come by, my impression is that the rate of progression without treatment may not be quite as bad as Ned@1 says. For example, in the section of this video from 16.27 Dr Scholz claims that more than half of Gleason 8 cancers will NOT metastasize over a 10 year period and that the percentage only goes above half for Gleason 9+.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhQCredt9mM

Also, I was interested to explore the life expectancy nomogram on the Kattan website. When I was diagnosed with Gleason 8 at 66, I thought my life expectancy had just been drastically shortened. However, when I looked much later at this nomogram, the implication of it was that I would have had a sporting chance of making it to 80 even without any radical treatment and, who knows, I might even have joined the ranks of men who die without knowing they had prostate cancer.

User
Posted 23 Dec 2024 at 17:34

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Francij1

I would respectfully disagree that any treatment or doing nothing is equal at 10 to 15 years if caught early is demonstrable by the statistics. Gleason 6 cancers by many Doctors are being considered as no cancer and your statistics for these cancers is that they are demonstrably slow growing, but advanced Gleason 8, and 9 and 10 are demonstrably fast growing through Decipher statistics and other genome testing. Doing nothing with these cancers is not an option regardless even in a science world where someone was diagnosed on day 1 of their cancer inception, its not 10 to 15 years, it will metastasize quickly under 5 years if its an aggressive cancer and nothing to treat it is done.

I was only talking about mack-mack who is 3+7 

I would hope "doing nothing" would never be an option considered by anyone <60 and >G7.

User
Posted 24 Dec 2024 at 13:36

Mack,

I was a similar Gleason Score of 7 (3+4) — with positive samples in the biopsy being mostly 3+3, with one focal area showing 3+4. The issue for me during about 9 months of AS was precisely the concerns raised by others above - it needs to be *active* and yet PSA is not necessarily a direct measure of disease progression. My PSA went up and then down again over 12 months - causing me to conclude that opting for surgery was better than the ongoing anxiety (around doing all the right things in terms of lifestyle, diet and exercise) and uncertainty of regular monitoring. I am 49 years old and relatively fit, so to elect for surgery early meant better predicted outcomes.

6 weeks later and I’m pretty much back to normal, except for ED - which I understand will be a process. All signs are positive for a “good enough” erectile function though. I think the ED aspect is the most sensitive and very much something that will vary personally. It has brought a different level of expectation into my sex life. One that brings vulnerabilities and one that is resulting in a more intimate and emotional connection with my wife as we work through it together. Like I say - this is six weeks in but it is worth saying it how it is. The decision is yours and yours alone. Whatever you do - life is different now. But that doesn’t have to mean it is worse. In fact, for me at least, this is all part of life’s many enriching experiences.

In your case, the argument for AS is strong - as it was for me. Although that pattern 4 will have the consultants paying closer attention (and something that can’t be measured without another biopsy). I can really empathise with where you are at. I will never know if opting for surgery was the better choice but I can say categorically that I am in a better mental state now, without the uncertainty weighing on me.

User
Posted 30 Dec 2024 at 20:12

Dear Mark,

 

Thank you for your honest reply.

I am still all over the place, and will at least for now continue with Active Surveillance.

I am doing research and am in the process of trying to get an appointment with a Focal Therapy specialist.

To see if the Nanno Knife or HIFU treatments are options?

Less invasive and fewer side effects.

I also believe that Single Port Robotic surgery have better odds when it comes to incontinence?

As well as a quicker recovery time.

Time will tell if I have / am making the right decision.

Wishing you all a very Happy Healthy New year

 

 

User
Posted 02 Jan 2025 at 19:31

Hey Mack-Mack,

HIFU looks an interesting option. It was one I explored as well but was told there was not enough of a focal area detectable in the MRI for it to be effective. This was after having undergone a further higher contrast MRI too.  And yet it turns out there was indeed a focal area (of max 20mm diameter) that they only found in the post-operative histology. Anyway - HIFU does sound worth considering as an option if they deem it suitable for you. I’m sure others on this forum can offer their advice and experiences with that.

The singje port procedure does give comparatively quicker recovery times from what I understand - in terms of being active post surgery, as there are fewer surface wound to heal. But the underlying operation is the same. And the underlying wounds will still take as long to heal. The direction at which the surgeon approaches the prostate appears to have a bearing on continence - in that the retzius sparing method leaves the ligaments involved in continence control there more intact I believe. But it’s not all or nothing. A lot more will be dependent on the nature of your surgery in the first place (which is determined by how much the disease has progressed), as well as your own anatomy and the skill of your surgical team.

It’s a lot to think about. The posts on this forum are full of people going through the same questions. And questions to which there’s no simple answers.

Good luck in your research and speaking with consultants. And do post your thoughts and discoveries here too. 

 

Edited by member 02 Jan 2025 at 20:19  | Reason: Corrected a mistake

User
Posted 03 Jan 2025 at 09:52

Hi Mack

There are a lot of very useful replies on this thread, so I wont repeat lots of stuff that has already been said. I am in a similar situation to Adrian, in that I tried AS and it didn't work for me. I was originally diagnosed as T2, nicely contained within the gland, G3+4=7. 10 months later I was T3a as it had broken out of the capsule, and they found tertiary pattern 5 as well.

The main thing I would advise, is don't be so scared of the side effects if you elect to have radical treatment. I had surgery last July. Ok, I now suffer with ED and incontinence, but you know what?, you get used to it, and the stress it causes is far less than the stress of living with that ticking time bomb down there.

I am not saying don't stay on AS, as that may be a perfectly sound option for you if monitored closely. Just don't write off radical treatment for fear of the side effects. As I keep telling myself, you have to be alive to pee yourself! The ED is frustrating, but I have a meeting with my consultant this afternoon, and he is confident he can help with this by referring me to discuss "some form of mechanical intervention". A spontaneous leg over may be a thing of the past, but hey ho, I'm not 18 any more.

Good luck with whatever you decide mate.

Ian.

User
Posted 03 Jan 2025 at 20:28

Hi Mack,

I’ve been on AS for six years and have been really happy with it. I was diagnosed at 56 and, like you, wasn’t keen on the potential side effects of treatment. For context, I was 4+3=7 in one core only on my first biopsy, then 3+3=6 in one core on my second a year later. I’ve had a PSA test every three months since December 2018 and an MRI every two years. My PSA is currently 2.4. My latest scan has shown a new lesion which has worried the radiologist, so I’ve had a biopsy today. Depending on the results, I’ll either carry on with AS or opt for treatment. My position is while I’m comfortable with risk, there may come a stage when I’m not if and when the cancer develops and the balance starts to tip. But I’ve had a great six years; basically the same as it ever was, to the point where I’d almost forgotten I had cancer and was a little shocked when I got a call about the scan. If you can handle the mental side, I’d say it’s well worth doing. It’s given me time to assess my situation and get used to the idea that I may need treatment at a future date. Best of luck. 

User
Posted 04 Jan 2025 at 00:20

Hi Mack

It can be initially overwhelming and sometimes you just wish the doctors would tell you what you should do rather then leave it up to you decide which treatment to go for.  I think by going on Active Surveillance (AS) it gives you some time to process all the information that you're initially bombarded with and to investigate which options are right for you. I was fortunate enough to be on AS for 6 years before my cancer progressed to stage 2.  I then chose to have a surgery rather than radiotherapy 6 months ago.  For me, surgery felt like the right option and even during my first few months of recovery when I was incontinent and quite down about it all  I never felt that I had made the wrong decision. The side effects can initially be daunting  but they can be managed and there are several treatments out there that can help with them.  I'm still suffering from ED but I know it is still early days for this side effect to improve significantly.

I wish you all the best.

Paul

User
Posted 05 Jan 2025 at 19:55

Hi David,

 

Thank you for your input  and sharing - It's now been just a month on from the diagnosis.

I am still in a state of ''shock'' .

In the meantime I have decided to stay with the Active Surveillance - as I just cant get my head around the side effects of the various ''treatments''.

Even though the cancer is small and I quote, from two extracts from the Oncologists letter to me.

" the biopsies showed very tiny specs of low-grade prostate cancer" ... 'This truly is a tiny amount of prostate cancer"

Why would a prostatectomy even be mentioned as a treatment option?

This has really messed with my head .

Some days are better than others as I try to come to terms with the diagnosis - and it all been made ''more difficult'', as I do not have any symptoms and do not feel ill/ sick.

Trying to be brave ,

Regards

 

Mack

 

 

 

 

 

 

User
Posted 05 Jan 2025 at 20:54

Mack,

That letter from your Oncologist is a very compelling letter for doing AS. It is really encouraging to see him put that down. You must remember he is obliged to share with you the other options including the prostatectomy especially with a Gleason 7, but that is because AS mentally for some people have a hard time wrapping around leaving “cancer” inside and want and demand the surgery and AS for a Gleason 7 (3+4) favorable is really going to depend on the totality of the results of everything. I did AS or called watchful waiting with another cancer 20 years ago while being monitored and after two years I had to pull the trigger and have chemotherapy. I very much enjoyed my additional two years of non side effects but at times it was difficult knowing my cancer was inside. Again it must be emphasized to follow AS protocol with PSA’s, MRI’s and biopsies as required.

User
Posted 05 Jan 2025 at 21:38

I think part of Mack’s dilemma is one of the oncologist met said if you were my son, father partner I would recommend surgery. This was followed by AS and radiotherapy. I think this conflicting info/ advice would lead to many people feeling very conflicted when trying to reach an informed decision.

 
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