Hi Adrian- i wanted to thank you for many of your comments and messages here. i have been following the site since RP on November 19th and reading peoples experiences and treatment. it has been very encouraging to read people's experiences and the support through messages.
i had been on surveillance from 2021 to summer 2024; i had opted to go private and new results came in and the consultant said that the cancer was 'misbehaving' and needed to get going with treatment. at that time it was Stage 1-2; 3 cores 4,3, but fully contained. however after surgery, there was another area that had been high grade PIN that in the space of 12 months on the NHS had progressed into the seminal vesical duct route from the base of the prostate but with otherwise fully clear capsule, and neurosafe allowed full nerve sparing. biopsy showed full clear margins, no node involvement. i was shocked to hear the seminal issue as this hadnt been detected. i face the PSA test next week to assess how its gone, and im more anxious now than before surgery, and other biopsy/MRI scans..!
interestingly, during all my consultant meetings, i always asked "what would you do, if you were me" and this allowed me to understand what the consultant would do. obviously not always the best choice but we had developed trust and there was always time to discuss things. i also knew more due to my dads own diagnosis in 2021 and we lost him to PC in 2022. the consultant also drew things for me and also talked through the scans, my 23mm urethra (which he was pleased about). i was aware that the consultants approach was "i am a cutting man, my man, where possible" and he had conducted 3000+ robot and around 60 single point robotic surgeries. i was able to have single point robotic surgery and back at work just before christmas.
thanks