I have just read your conversations about lymph nodes with interest.
My original PSA was 82 and MRI score T3bN0 M0 and Gleason score of 4+5=9
I've just had my first appointment with the Oncologist on Thursday and he didn't fill me with much confidence. He said I probably would be on Hormone therapy for 2 years and start Radiotherapy in February consisting of 4 weeks treatment. My wife asked him what areas would he be targeting with the radiotherapy and he just said the Prostate and seminal vesicles. I followed this by saying seeing as its an aggressive form of cancer wouldn't it be best to include the lymph nodes? He had a think about it and agreed that's probably best!!
I also said what about doing a PET scan because nearly 3 months had passed since the original scans and the cancer could have spread. He said it would have been a good idea earlier but now that Hormone therapy had started it wasn't necessary.
We made it aware that things have progressed slowly so far but now seem to moving on at a quicker pace. That was more or less it. Later in the day he called me and said he'd been reviewing my case again with a colleague and offered me a one off high doze of Brachytherapy at Christies in Manchester. I accepted this but thought he's only doing this because they haven't given me the best care.
The punch line is if we hadn't have pushed he wouldn't have included the lymph nodes in the radiotherapy.